A Guide to Nerd Guys Meeting and Dating Women: What to do Part 1
During my last few posts, I mentioned having something in mind to suggest when you talk to the girl. In fact, as I said in one of them, you should have a couple ideas, as girls almost universally say no to the first thing you suggest. In fact, it behooves you to have several ideas, all from different categories, to suggest.
First of all, let me get into what you should not suggest.
Unless you absolutely, positively know that she is a super nerd (and in which case, I am very jealous myself) do not suggest any of your normal nerd activities. This include anything comic book related, gaming, video game, or anything for which you can and have attended a convention. In fact, even if she is a nerd I would suggest staying away from these as most people don’t want to reveal their nerdishness to quickly.
D&D is a bad idea (shirt image courtesy of the gaming t shirt category)
Honestly, avoid anything that you can’t explain in two lines or less, or only you and your friend seems aware of.
Remember what I said about remaining mysterious and not revealing too much too soon. Women are like Sherlock Holmes when it comes to interpreting guys they are dating, and anything you tell her about yourself can be interpreted into something bad. Suggesting something you personally know a lot about and love will give her a window into your personality. As a rule keep first date activities as anonymous as possible.
Of course, anonymous is not the same as dull and boring. We’ll get more into that later on.
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