A Guide to Nerd Guys Meeting and Dating Women: What to do Part 4
Of course, after she shoots down your incredibly clever and fun ideas, odds are you will end up simply planning dinner and/or a movie. This is an old standby and generally works well, especially if you have a hard time maintaining a long conversation without falling back to long diatribes about Geordie from Star Trek TNG was 1/2 of the character Spock, the other half being Data.
This, by the way, is a conversation quagmire I have fallen into myself (shirt image courtesy of the Star Trek t shirt category)
If, by any chance, you actually can maintain a decent conversation for more than an hour or so feel free to forgo the movie and simply suggest dinner and coffee rather than a movie. However, the movie can prove a bonding experience and will give you something to talk about. Also, you had better be sure about being able to maintain that conversation.
Never, ever agree to just see a movie. This is something not even friends do.
That’s pretty much it on what to plan. Next post I will start talking about going on that actual date.
